Unit 1 Leap
Be Proud of Who You Are
____, my name is Laura Thompson, and I’m a guidance counselor at the local college.
I also have a social media channel where I give advice to ____ students like you.
Today I’d like to talk to ____ about two things that I hope will inspire you.
____ me start by asking you a question.
Have you ever asked ____ whether you made a good impression on someone you just met?
In ____, most people believe they make a worse impression than they actually do.
Researchers ____ an experiment where students were paired up for five-minute ice breaking conversations.
They were ____ asked to rate how much they liked their partners.
Additionally, ____ asked participants if they thought their partners liked them.
Most participants’ estimations of their ____’ responses were pessimistic, which were opposite to the real responses.
It turns ____ that participants do not make bad impressions but make better impressions than they think.
The researchers coined a new term, the “liking gap,” for this difference in perception or the mismatch between how we perceive ourselves and what ____ actually think of us.
How is this helpful for ____?
We ____ underestimate ourselves based on our assumption of how others might judge us.
In other words, our fixed attitudes may prevent us from ____ our true potential.
Don’t worry about the impression you ____ you make on people; chances are you can be confident that the impression you make is just fine.
The second point I want to ____ today is about thinking that your personality is fixed.
Many people believe that their personality falls into a specific category and often blame their weaknesses or failures on their ____ type.
For example, they may say they ____ do something because they aren’t that kind of person.
However, personality ____ are neither absolute nor permanent.
____ to remember yourself from ten years ago.
____ was your favorite singer?
What did you hope to ____ when you grow up?
Do you feel the ____ way now?
What will your answers be 10 years ____ now?
I bet ____ don’t know.
Just like your likes and future dreams ____ changing, so do you.
If you ____ to behave differently and make needed changes, your personality will also change.
People are predictable and consistent ____ time only because they choose to be, so don’t limit yourself to a certain type.
Start crafting the person ____ want to become today.
“Giving Up” Has No Place in My Dictionary!
Hello, everyone! Thank you for your warm ____.
It’s good to be back home, but I’m visiting you today not to perform but to talk to you ____ my life as a musician.
Last year, after 20 ____ of hard work, I finally signed my first record company contract.
I’d like to tell you a hopeful story and give some insight into the hard ____ that I had to put in.
Look at this picture of ____ The Old Guitarist behind me.
My ____ was a classical guitarist, and on my 13th birthday, he gave me this picture and a new guitar.
After he passed away, I hung it up in my room as a reminder of his love for ____.
I wasn’t a ____ genius, but I was better than most.
I was ____ at school festivals, and I thought I was born to be a musician.
But things were far ____ easy.
In college, I had to compete with classmates ____ were definitely more capable than I was.
I don’t ____ remember how many contests I went to and came up short.
I kept failing no ____ how hard I tried.
It seemed like every disappointment ____ me lose hope more and more.
I wanted to ____ up.
The funny thing was whenever anyone asked me to ____ a song for them, I would be so happy.
Although my dream was to record an album, the ____ was I probably wouldn’t make it.
Then one day, I looked at the picture of The Old Guitarist on my ____.
I suddenly remembered ____ my grandfather had told me about Picasso: only a tiny fraction of the thousands of artworks he created during his lifetime are recognized by the public.
Then I thought of my grandfather and how he loved playing, ____ his art his entire life, even without fame.
I realized the only way to become an old guitarist ____ him was to keep playing.
The happy ending to this story is that after having sent my recordings to countless producers, I finally found one ____ was eager to work with me.
____ thing led to another, and I finally signed a record deal.
Opportunities only come to ____ who are prepared.
I had spent years performing on unknown streets and writing songs no one ____.
The difficulties I faced were part of my ____.
If you love something, ____ trying.
Someday an opportunity may come knocking at your ____, and you have to be ready to welcome it.