Unit 1 My Life
Letters from Recent Graduates
____ to a new season of High School Magazine.
To start off the new school year on the right foot, we asked some ____ our recent graduates to give us tips on how to succeed in the coming year and beyond.
____ Apples to Apples
In high school, everyone told me how talented an artist I was, so I dreamed of becoming ____ illustrator.
In ____ though, everyone seemed much more talented than me, and they all worked so hard that I felt small in comparison.
I thought ____ giving up my dream of becoming an artist.
Then one day, I happened ____ see a drawing I had won an award for from middle school on the kitchen wall.
I was embarrassed because ____ wasn’t very good.
People say you ____ compare apples to oranges, and they’re right.
That’s why it doesn’t make sense to compare yourself to Internet personalities or even people in ____ real life.
Maybe they had an advantage, or even a disadvantage, that ____ didn’t.
If you are ____ to compare yourself to anyone, the only fair comparison is “yesterday-you.”
Only you know ____ you started and how much effort you’ve put in.
I couldn’t see the progress in my ability when ____ only compared myself to others.
Everyone develops ____
I’m able to see now the drawing in the kitchen was full of mistakes that I no longer ____
____ is empowering to see how I have improved rather than to envy the success of others.
Your competition ____ the person next door or the influencer on social media: it’s you.
Don’t Be Afraid to Speak Up
Do you share your opinion in class discussions, or do you ____ stay silent and keep it to yourself?
Like many of you, ____ often found myself in the second group.
A little black hole inside of me swallowed my voice when I considered speaking ____
The consequences of being ridiculed or ____ wrong were always on my mind.
Then, after a particularly heated conversation in class, I asked myself, “What am I afraid ____
I ____ scared that bad things would happen, but I never thought about good things.
When I noticed others taking risks, I knew that I needed to do the same in order to ____
Many people are scared to ____ up, but a lot of them do it anyway because they think it’s worth it.
____ I left my comfort zone and started to speak up.
I grew intellectually and socially by expressing myself more ____
I got closer to friends who liked ____ open I was with them.
Now I have more people with whom I can talk, share my ideas, ____ learn new things.
Remember, taking ____ risk of expressing yourself can be extremely rewarding in unexpected ways.
Use Energy on What You Can Control
As I worked through my second year into my third in college, I had more troubles ____ school and personal life.
I would get excited, anxious, worried, and bored all at once and then ____
I would get exhausted when I had to write a report for my courses, mediate a disaster between ____ and respond to the comments on my online journal.
I was drowning in a ____ of responsibilities, concerns, and anxieties, and that was when I read an article with a simple insight.
The article advised ____ to draw two big circles, with myself in the center.
The smaller circle is my circle of influence, and I have direct control over the things inside it: what I eat and drink, how I behave, or ____ I do after school.
The bigger circle is called ____ circle of concern: things I worry about but have no direct control over.
For example, I have no direct control over how my professor will react to my report, but I do have control over the amount of research I do for ____
Believing that everything was in my circle of influence ____ me stressed out and constantly exhausted.
By wasting less energy on my ____ of concern, I was able to invest more energy into things that mattered.
I no longer worry about what my friends think, and I focus on my ____ actions.
____ don’t get anxious over what might be on the test, and instead I put in every effort to understand the concepts themselves.
Now, I ____ put my mental and physical energy into my circle of influence: eating healthy, staying in shape, and working hard.