Lesson 1 You and I Become “We”
The Power of Friendliness: Soft but Strong 1
It’s ____ to see you, everyone! I’m Dr. Edward Wilson, an evolutionary biologist.
Thank ____ for inviting me here today.
On my ____, I had trouble locating this room.
Luckily, a ____ student came up to me and walked me here.
____ fascinating how, in situations like this, we want to help someone in need.
Now, this raises some interesting questions: where does our friendliness ____ from, and why is it important?
To answer these ____, I’d like to tell you about my childhood companion dog, Sparky.
When we played with a ball, I noticed that he ____ well to my gestures.
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The responsive behavior of ____ also caught the attention of an evolutionary anthropologist, Brian Hare.
He conducted an experiment to see how dogs would respond to human gestures compared to wolves, who share the ____ common ancestor.
He placed two ____ on the ground with food hidden under only one of them.
____ he pointed to the cup with the food, the dogs found it easily.
The wolves, however, struggled and chose cups at random, ____ no attention to his gestures.
Dr. Hare concluded that the dogs’ ability to read ____ gestures allowed them to perform better than the wolves.
He explained that dogs, unlike wolves, have ____ communicative skills with humans and a sense of friendliness.
This explanation sounds reasonable ____ to several evolutionary biologists.
They say that from the common ancestors of ____ two species, those that acted friendly toward humans evolved into dogs, and those that didn’t became wolves.
Furthermore, Dr. Hare ____ that the friendly nature of dogs probably provided them a survival advantage that allowed their population to grow larger than that of wolves.
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I’ll give you another example of how friendliness is ____ to survival.
Dr. Hare and his colleagues designed an experiment with ____ and bonobos.
Although the two are ____ similar, they are different in nature.
To study their cooperative behavior, Dr. Hare’s team set up a device which required two individuals to ____ both ends of a rope at the same time in order to access food on a board.
When placed with partners that the chimpanzees knew, they were able to work ____ to get the food.
However, when paired with new partners, the chimpanzees usually failed to get the food, and when they occasionally succeeded, they did not ____ the food with their partner.
The bonobos, on the other hand, got ____ much better than the chimpanzees.
They solved the problem regardless of which individual they were paired with, and they were also more willing to share the ____.
This research shows that bonobos have a cooperative and ____ nature.
Experts suggest that their nature has ____ their species survive.
Without these characteristics, they could have ____ extinction.
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Now let’s ____ our attention to ourselves, Homo sapiens.
How have we managed to survive for so ____?
Neanderthals existed together with Homo sapiens until about 40,000 years ____, and they were known to be intelligent and physically superior to Homo sapiens.
Neanderthals were able to make tools and f ____ and had strong bodies with well-developed muscles and broad shoulders.
____ these attributes, however, it was Homo sapiens who ultimately survived and thrived.
One possible explanation is that our ancestors lived in larger communities that ____ cooperation and the free exchange of knowledge, while Neanderthals tended to live in smaller groups.
These social differences may have given Homo sapiens a competitive ____ over Neanderthals, allowing them to adapt to an ever-changing environment.
In our competitive society, many people believe that only the biggest or the strongest ____ survive and thrive.
However, I propose an ____ view: kindness is the key to success.
Isn’t that a comforting thought? We can ____ the power of our natural kindness to communicate and cooperate with different individuals.
We can all benefit from this ____ of trying to be better than others.
I’d like to end this talk with a message. Think of our society as a ____.
Just as each flower adds to the beauty when it ____ with the others, each person can contribute to a more beautiful world when they cooperate.
By being kind and working together, we can ____ flourish. Thank you for your attention.